When ever we do things our own way, things usually don't turn out the way that we wanted it to. Arguments tend to get heated after a while after each person thinks that they are correct. And when they get heated, anything is bound to come out of my mouth, as is anyone else. As I look back to my last argument, things did not turn out the way it should have. Feelings got hurt, both sides were not receptive of the other- trying to get their point across.
I have done it my way, now it is time to try something different. In Proverbs 12:13-22, tells us two defining ways of speech. One of deceit and destruction, and one... God's way.
According to they way that God wants us to do it, I can definitely see that there could have been a different outcome. One thing that stuck out was- 15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise. "Heeds counsel". Means to heed to the Holy Spirit, whom God uses to communicate to our Spirit. The Holy Spirit will "check" us and point us to God, that He would remind us to act according to His ways.
IN ALL SITUATIONS, NO MATTER WHAT, IF WE ARE TO BECOME MORE LIKE JESUS- JESUS TEACH THE RIGHT WAY OF LIVING- NOT DESTRUCTION, IF OUR DAILY READING OF OUR DEVOTIONAL IS NOT JUST A READING- BUT THAT WE CAN APPLY WHAT WE READ TO OUR DAILY LIFE. I PICK UP MY BIBLE, THIS IS HOW WE ARE TO LIVE!!! IT TELLS US HOW TO!!! IN EVERY SITUATION!!! QUIT LIVING ACCORDING TO OUR OWN AMBITIONS!!! LIVE THE WAY GOD WANTS US TO!!! IT WILL BE LESS PAINFUL!!!
Sorry, I am just so sick of listening to the enemy on how to live, how to react, living in the ENEMY'S pride. Living according to God's way is NOT PAINFUL. God's word in the bible are not meant to cause pain!
We have all made mistakes, we cannot change the past. I want to put the past aside, I do not want to live in the past anymore. I want to build my relationships. I look forward to my next argument, or shall I say discussion- to do it with the genuine love that God has granted me. I want to flourish and bear good fruit. BEAR GOOD FRUIT!

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